“I don’t want food” “I don’t want green” “It’s not yummy” “No carrots” “I don’t like this one”
I guess you are familiar with one or more of those phrases from your child. I think the most heartbreaking for me is getting that “It’s not yummy” after all that work in the kitchen to ensure that you make the best. Well, that is picky eaters for you and bet me, there is nothing ‘unyummy’ about the food except the fact that it is not wanted at that particular time. It can be so frustrating atimes trying to make sure that your picky eater eats a balanced diet but the good news is that you are not alone, neither is it specific to your child. I worried a lot about it until i made my research and realised that it is a typical behaviour for children and as well a part of their growing up and being independent.
There are several tips on how to manage picky eaters which I am currently exploring with my little madam. Here are some of them and i hope it proves useful to you.
- Put away the junks. What they do not see would not be wanted for long. Don’t buy or leave those biscuits, chocolates, crisps, fizzy drinks and juice around, rather keep the healthy alternatives like fruits. We have seasonal fruits all year round…banana, apples, pear, our local udala or agbalumo, icheku (the one in a black shell…help me with the English name please). Even boiled groundnuts can keep them too busy to look for crisps. Offer water more or 100% juice instead of fizzy and sugary drinks.
- Let them help out in the preparation. It is believed that encouraging the kids to join in the preparation of the meal encourages them to participate in the eating well. Allow them pick the beans, put toppings on the sandwich, wash the vegetables, beat the egg, pound the crayfish and spices. I know it gives mine a sense of belonging, though i have to keep up with too many questions.
- Allow them be a judge of their stomach. This may be a difficult one especially when you know they have not eaten anything. Well, try not to force them to eat or finish what is in their plate especially when they indicate they are full. So long as you don’t fill them up with snacks and junks, they will eat once they are hungry. According to some experts, forcing them to eat or finish all that is in their plate might make them associate mealtime with anxiety and frustration.
- Introduce new food and varieties. Serving one type of meal all the time will definitely make a child not accept new ones easily. Our first excuse is that we have tried other things but he/she refused to take it…now, how many times have you tried that food? Children can reject a food up to 12 times or more before they learn to accept it. Therefore patience is the key…keep trying, not only with one.
- Hide the veggies. Now that is one of my favourites. As much as we try to ensure they see what they are eating, you can sometimes cut corners just to make sure they get the nutrition they require. You can puree the vegetables into their favourite meals or coarsely blend it into their food.
- Add some colour. I’m sure that children love colours as much as we adults do. some cubed or shredded carrots, bell peppers, green peas and sweetcorn can do the magic. You can probably get to play colour games with them in the process.
- Walk the talk. Yes, they do have eyes and if they see you always ‘downloading’ a 50 litre ‘orobo’ coke with some pastries, you don’t expect them to take apple as snack or look forward to that healthy meal. Be a good role model by eating the right food while encouraging them to do so.
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